Can
You Sue for Emotional Distress?
by
James P. Reape
Steven and Wendy married
on January 1, 1990. On November 25, 1990, Wendy gave birth to a
daughter, Stephanie. Unbeknownst to Steve, Wendy had been having
a sexual relationship with a man named H.T., both before and during
his and Wendy's marital relationship. It was through this liaison
that Stephanie was conceived. Wendy learned of H.T.'s paternity
one day after Stephanie's birth. Steve was not privy to this information,
and Wendy did not make him aware. As a result, Steve believed Stephanie
to be his natural daughter and he developed a close parental bond
with her.
In mid 1993, Steve
and Wendy separated. Steve filed a Petition for Dissolution of Marriage,
and sought sole legal and physical custody of Stephanie. Wendy,
in a malicious attempt to interfere with Steve's relationship with
the child, told him Stephanie was not his child, but was a result
of rape. At Wendy's suggestion, Steve took a blood test which confirmed
his lack of paternity over Stephanie.
Further scheming to
interfere with the relationship between Steve and Stephanie, Wendy
attempted to introduce the results of the blood tests into the dissolution
proceeding in order to challenge Steve's paternity. The Family Court,
however, found Steve was entitled to the conclusive presumption
of paternity, based on the fact that a child born to a married woman
cohabiting with her husband is conclusively presumed to be a child
of the marriage. This determination was affirmed on Wendy's appeal.
In July 1994, Steve
filed a suit against Wendy alleging fraud, intentional infliction
of emotional distress, and negligent infliction of emotional distress.
Wendy objected to Steve's complaint, however, her objection merely
contended Steve's cause of action for intentional infliction of
emotional distress was barred by public policy. The trial court
agreed with Wendy. Upon Steve's appeal, the appellate court affirmed
the trial court's decision.
Public policy considerations
which were ruled to have barred Steve's claim included an improper
attempt by Steve to recover damages for the creation of a close
and loving relationship between Steve and Stephanie, as well as
Steve's claim that Wendy attempted to destroy the father/child relationship
between him and Stephanie, and the possible adverse affects on Stephanie
by her being dragged into the civil proceedings. The arena in which
Steve's claims arose was a dissolution proceeding. Dissolution and
custody proceedings are often fraught with emotionally charged issues
and competing charges of impropriety. As married persons share an
intensely personal and intimate relationship, when discord between
them arises, it is inevitable that they will suffer distress.
Steve's claim, if allowed,
would also contravene policies underlying California's abolition
of Heart-Balm Actions, and causes of action for alienation of affection.
The judiciary should not attempt to regulate all aspects of the
human condition. Relationships can take varied forms, and this begets
complications and entanglements which often defy reason.
"...Love has
been known to last a lifetime, but it has also been known to be
notoriously evanescent. These are matters better left to advice
columnists than to judges and juries."
The California Appellate
Court, in a two-to-one (2 to 1) decision, concluded the social good
to be gained by allowing Steve's cause of action to proceed was
outweighed by the adverse consequences. A tort action, such as Steve's
, seldom, if ever, results in a benefit to the parties' child, and
moreover, Wendy's conduct is similar to betrayal, for which the
law wisely should not provide a remedy. The Appellate Court believed
that to attempt to correct such wrongs, or to give relief from their
effects, will do more social damage than if the law leaves them
alone.
Just Marion Vogel dissented,
stating she would not let Wendy use her daughter as a shield to
escape liability for her tortuous behavior. She stated:
"While it may
offend some to permit ex-spouses to sue each other in this context,
I am far more offended by the majorities' decision to leave Steve
without a remedy for the damage he allegedly has suffered as a
result of Wendy's malicious misconduct. I find equally offensive,
the undercurrent of paternalistic chauvinism running just beneath
the surface of the case as relied on by the majority, about which
I will say no more-- either you see it or you don't."
In California, the
inability to sue your spouse (interspousal immunity) has long been
abandoned. This does not mean spouses can sue each other for every
intentional act which causes emotional injury to the other spouse.
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